Self Love

Why shop sex toys at Self Studies

At Self Studies we believe every human deserves the right to enjoy love, pleasure and intimacy, whether this is with a partner(s) or simply going solo. Self Studies curates the world's best brands and products to create a bodysafe, innovative and modern platform, no matter what your preference is. Self Studies has a carefully curated assortment of sex toys for her, for him and together. Self Studies works with globally the finest brands, ensuring that materials and technologies are best in class. You probably want to know what sex toy to buy? Sex toys come in many different models, shapes, sizes and colours. Every sex toy has different pattern modes and intensity levels and other additional settings. There are various types of sex toys within Self Love, we have vibrators, air and suction toys, rings and masturbators, anal toys, massagers and lubes and liquids. We have Pleasure Together which is for couple toys, you can easily find the best toy that suits your needs. Also, elements to consider when choosing a vibrator, is it waterproof? Is it USB rechargeable? Is it made from Body Safe Silicone? Is it for vaginal or anal use, or both? Will you use it alone, or with a partner? Is it for unisex use?

Fast and discreet delivery

We deliver within 2-4 days within the Netherlands, and shipping throughout Europe. Packaging is discreet, with a plain brown box, no fuss, no logo, no attention.

Our Brands

We’ve edited our brands and products, making shopping for a sex toy so much easier. Within Self Love we carry brands such as Lelo, Dame, Smile Makers, Magic Motion, Aneros, and Tenga.  

Sex toys for him

We carry a wide range of sex toys for him, from the best brands. Within anal toys, you can find best selling vibrating prostate massagers such as Hugo and Vice 2. We have rings and masturbators, check the Geo Aqua and Flex. We have interactive masturbators such as the Sam Neo. You can find popular brands such as Rocks Off, Tenga, Durex, Rocks Off and Aneros

Sex toys for her

Did you know that a recent study found that a mere 18% of women can reach orgasm through only having penetrative vaginal sex, making it completely normal to reach orgasm through additional clitoral stimulation. We have an expertly curated selection of sex toys for her. Within Self Love, take a peek at vibrators, Tennis Pro and Alice. Not sure which vibrator to buy? Check out the various options: air and suction, G-Spot vibrators, clitoral vibrators, wand massagers and app-controlled vibrators. We have the most beautiful and innovative assortment, look at Kushi, Flamingo, Pom, Gigi 2, Satifyer Pro 2.

Sex toys together

We’ve hand picked the best couples toys to use together within Pleasure Together.  Whether you’re looking for a toy to use with each other, together or remotely, in public or in private, we have you covered. Check out best selling Eva by Dame, a beautiful couples vibrator, or Satisfyers Endless Joy Multi Vibrator. For App-control, check at the brand Magic Motion, especially Nyx, a wearable vibrator. If you’re looking for a couples toy to be used remotely, check the app controlled Flamingo.

Gift Finder

You’re at the right place to find the perfect gift. Self Studies has the finest hand-picked assortment of sex toys and complimentary care. Go directly to best sellers for her: Arc G Spot vibrator, Eva, The Firefighter, Pro 2, Tori, Flamingo, Sona Cruise, and Alice. Best sellers for him Sam Neo, Hugo and Helix Syn Trident

Gift Cards

Not sure what to give, give a Self Studies Gift Card, the perfect gift to ensure a little Self Love. 


Within Self Aware you can find an array of content written especially for Self Studies. During our journey, we became very aware, quite soon that there are so many terms that we were not familiar with. So we created our own A to Z of sexual terms for our Sexypedia, enjoy!