Welcome to SELF STUDIES

At Self Studies, we want to empower people to celebrate their own pleasure.

To discover it.
To play with it.
To take control of it.
To expand upon it.
To discuss it. To share it.
To perfect it.
To find their own voice within their own body.
Self Studies is a place to shop, a place to share, a place to learn,
a place for pleasure.

Your pleasure is our pleasure.
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SELF LOVE

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You know that old adage, that only you can make yourself happy? Annoyingly, it’s true. Because if you don’t know you, then no one will. No one will know what you like. What you hate. What turns you on. What turns you off. How to start. How to pause. How to finish. Should I start? Should I pause? Have you finished? You’re your own masterpiece that only you can master. It’s time to put you, at the heart of you. To love yourself. Please yourself. And study yourself. Self Studies is here for you. To empower you. To equip you. To support you.

SELF CARE

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This weeks read

BDSM and Kink: What is What

Engaging in power play is a stress put on the mind and the body. A person that has just come through that, whether it be impact play or degradation, requires aftercare - comfort and reassurance that they are loved and taken care of.

Only when there is trust, honesty, and vulnerability in BDSM, is it possible to to play with power and not misuse it.

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STORIES

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  1. Inside the World of a Dominatrix

    People deep in the space of submission may not always be able to communicate when they’ve reached their limit, and it's the role of the Dominatrix to observe and respond to body language, breathing, and other cues, either pushing a little farther or wrapping up the session.
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  2. BDSM and Kink: What is What

    Engaging in power play is a stress put on the mind and the body. A person that has just come through that, whether it be impact play or degradation, requires aftercare - comfort and reassurance that they are loved and taken care of.

    Only when there is trust, honesty, and vulnerability in BDSM, is it possible to to play with power and not misuse it.

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  3. Pleasure shared is pleasure doubled

    When you’re used to having an exclusive one-on-one connection with masturbation, the thought of roping another person into that dynamic can be absolutely mind-boggling. And, just like introducing a new 'friend' to the 'group,' there are many methods to do so without disruption. 
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  4. Written Pleasure - You Deserve This

    By studio-wednesday.com We walk in, hand in hand. It’s our second time here, and our rules have changed since the last time. The first ...
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