You know that old adage, that only you can make yourself happy?
Annoyingly, it’s true.
Because if you don’t know you, then no one will.
No one will know what you like. What you hate.

What turns you on. What turns you off.
How to start. How to pause. How to finish.
Should I start? Should I pause? Have you finished?
You’re your own masterpiece that only you can master.
It’s time to put you, at the heart of you.

To love yourself. Please yourself and study yourself.
Self Studies is here for you.

To empower you. To equip you. To support you.
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How to make the world a better place – one vagina at a time

July 21, 2022

The last couple of years has seen a surge of gender-inclusive and beautifully designed sex toys and Dame Products is leading the way. Founded by sexologist Alexandra Fine and MIT-engineer Janet Lieberman out of Brooklyn, New York, they had a crystal-clear vision in mind. As Alexandra explains: ‘Our goal was to help close the pleasure gap (according to findings by Dame cis men have 20 to 50% more orgasms as heterosexual cis-women in partnered sexual encounters) for people with vulvas, so we engineered products to encourage self-care, advocacy, and healthy lifestyle, starting with sex and pleasure.’

  1. How to find the right sex toy with Alexandra Fine

    How to find the right sex toy and deepen your intimate wellness, according to the woman behind pleasure brand Dame
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  2. How to make the world a better place – one vagina at a time

    Dame’s co-founder, sexologist Alexandra Fine, on how to make the world a better place – one vagina at a time
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  3. Where to start?

    Where to start with vibrators

    Pleasure is part of living life to the fullest, and everyone deserves self-pleasure. For serious self-pleasure, heightened orgasms, and really knowing your body thoughtfully designed, gender-inclusive vibrators can be more than helpful on your intimate wellness journey. If you’re new to vibrators it can be daunting to pick one with such a massive range of options out there. Even if you have one at home, you may not have found your perfect match just yet. That’s why we came up with this clear overview of all types of contemporary sex toys. There are palm-sized ones (a ‘private pocket secret’ to carry around), unisex, anus massaging and air-suction (with the sensation of oral sex) vibrators.

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  4. The Future of Sex is Fluid

     Author: Kaira van Wijk for Self Studies The future of sex is fluid, says futures-anthropologist Roanne van Voorst. That is, from the vantage point...
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Self Studies

Self Studies is a curated online shop for offline pleasure. Our collection of intimate wellness and sensory products are carefully curated by the founders of Self Studies. Are you looking for vibrators, dildos, rings and masturbators or a beautiful air & suction vibrator? Self Studies has your intimate wellness needs covered. You can find a curated assortment of pleasure objects for your vagina, vulva, clitoris, penis or anus. Next to toys we also have self care, where we introduce supplements, intimate care, fragrances, books and games and pelvic floor.