Welcome to SELF STUDIES

At Self Studies, we want to empower people to celebrate their own pleasure.

To discover it.
To play with it.
To take control of it.
To expand upon it.
To discuss it. To share it.
To perfect it.
To find their own voice within their own body.
Self Studies is a place to shop, a place to share, a place to learn,
a place for pleasure.

Your pleasure is our pleasure.
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You know that old adage, that only you can make yourself happy? Annoyingly, it’s true. Because if you don’t know you, then no one will. No one will know what you like. What you hate. What turns you on. What turns you off. How to start. How to pause. How to finish. Should I start? Should I pause? Have you finished? You’re your own masterpiece that only you can master. It’s time to put you, at the heart of you. To love yourself. Please yourself. And study yourself. Self Studies is here for you. To empower you. To equip you. To support you.

This weeks read

Navigating Your Situationship on Valentine’s Day

Is there ever a more intense day which nudges you (gently or not so much so) towards evaluating your relationship or, in case you haven’t labeled it with the R-word yet, your thing that you have with that person you are sort of seeing, than Valentine’s Day?

  1. Self Care We Love in 2024

    At Self Studies, you come first. To make sure that doesn’t slip your mind this year, we curated the self care trends we love in 2024 for you to try and keep.

    We define self care as acts focused just on you that bring you pleasure, comfort, and wellbeing. Both instantly and in the long-term. 

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  2. Navigating Your Situationship on Valentine’s Day

    Is there ever a more intense day which nudges you towards evaluating your relationship or, in case you haven’t labeled it with the R-word yet, your thing that you have with that person you are sort of seeing, than Valentine’s Day?

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  3. Lessons on Sensuality and Eroticism with Taneesha Sijmons

    In itself, sexual energy is life and life is sexual energy. We use our sexual energy to give birth and procreate but also when we create businesses, relationships, art, or success.
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  4. Relationship Wellness

    Communication, sexual wellness, and intimate and emotional wellness all come together to nurture a relationship that is strong and embedded with honest love and understanding
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