Choose your Fighter
There’s no such thing as a one-size-fits-all vibrator. The right toy isn’t the one your friend swears by or the one trending online, it’s the one that fits you: your body, your mood, your curiosity, your pleasure.
Consider this your cheat sheet to finding the perfect partner-in-pleasure.
How to Choose the Right Toy for You?
It’s easy to get lost when shopping for a vibrator online. Where do you even begin? What do you actually need? And how do you know what will work for you?
At Self Studies, we believe pleasure should feel personal, intuitive, and empowering. So we’ve created a simple guide to help you navigate the noise and find the toy that truly fits.
What will you use it for?
Before adding anything to your cart, start with the why. Are you curious to explore solo pleasure, looking to deepen intimacy with a partner, or ready to experiment with new sensations? Knowing your intention helps narrow down the options.
For solo explorers: A classic like the Dame Pom is perfect for discovering what feels good and learning what your body responds to.
For couples play: A versatile design like the Dame Fin transitions seamlessly into shared moments and enhances connection.
What kind of stimulation do you crave?
Some bodies respond best to a soft, teasing hum. Others crave deep, powerful vibrations. Paying attention to the kind of stimulation that excites you will help you choose a toy that feels just right.
Brands like Dame are known for their strong, rumbly vibrations, the Dame Arc is a brilliant choice if you’re after intensity with precision.
Prefer a gentle build-up? The Iroha Yuki offers delicate, gradual stimulation.
Need intense power? The Maude Spot delivers deeply intense vibrations.
How quiet do you need it to be?
If you live with flatmates, kids, or have thin walls, noise might be a deciding factor. Many toys today are designed with discretion in mind. The Womanizer Premium 2 is an excellent example. It’s powerful but nearly silent and even smarter: it automatically pauses when not in contact with the body.
Pleasure, Personalised
Exploring pleasure is deeply personal there’s no universal “best” vibrator, only the one that’s best for you. Whether you’re starting your journey or expanding your collection, choosing with intention makes all the difference.
Self Studies
your pleasure is our bottom line.
your pleasure is our bottom line.
